Smörgåsbord Talk
Consider your relationship. Compare, privately.
Across communication, intimacy, romance, money, labels, and more: say where you stand on each, from Yes to No, then rate how important it is to you. Send the link to your partner, and they'll rate the same items on their own, blind to your answers. Once you've both finished, you'll each see where you line up, and where it's worth talking.
- Takes about half an hour each, at your own pace.
- No account, no email, no login. Ever.
- Your partner never sees your answers until you've both finished.
- Only the two of you can view the results.
How it works
- 1.Start a Smörgåsbord. Going solo gets you the invite link once you've finished rating; starting together gets it to you right away, so you can both begin at once.
- 2.Rate each item at your own pace. Nothing is shared with anyone yet, and you can come back to finish later.
- 3.Your partner rates the same items independently, blind to your answers, on their own device.
- 4.Once you've both finished, you each see where you line up and what's worth talking about.
Based on the Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord, originated by Lyrica Lawrence & Heather Orr of Vancouver Polyamory (December 2016), updated by Maxx Hill with the Relationship Anarchy, Polyamory, and Solo Polyamory communities through version 6 (July 2022). Licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 4.0.
Developed by Lars von Sneidern.